Onelife wrote: 12 Oct 2022, 16:00
Just my opinion but I do find all this whinging about the cost of living going up very frustrating.
I agree, to a certain degree. Many may have to learn that sometimes the answer is 'no' ... you cannot have more credit, you cannot have that upgrade etc. and many will have to compromise ... cancel those subscriptions, not eat out every night, look after their own children etc.
Obviously in the short term we need to help those most in need, but this is an opportunity to reflect on where we go in the future…personal responsibility has to come into play…I was listening to a young woman being interviewed the other day who said she was struggling to feed her five children despite her and her husband being in work. After me and my wife had our first child, we decided we would struggle supporting another child so decide against it, not that we didn’t want more children but it was at the time when we were struggling to meet our 15% mortgage interest rates. I’m I being too judgmental? Probably yes, but to my mind this crisis might just been the turning point for fiscal responsibility, both for consumers and Governments in taking a different approach.
I have often said 'if you can't feed it, don't breed it'. However, to be fair, in many families, things were affordable and jobs were secure until recently. Very few properly plan for the rainy day ... we all live in that delusional world of 'it will never happen to me'.
I still think the government solution to the energy crisis is wrong (I gave an alternative solution several months back). I also think the reliance on more and more benefits, including those in work, has been wrong (some brought in by Blair/Brown as a temporary measure are still in existence today).
Overall though I agree with you that we could be entering an age of more responsibility ... my concern though is that we have heard it before ... just after the 2008 global financial crisis ... yet within a few years the personal, commercial and governmental borrowing was totally out of control again ... the question for me is whether or not we will ever learn that just because credit is available does not mean we have to max it out? Sometimes you have to save and pay for those things you want!