Seat up? Or seat down?
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qbman1
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Seat up? Or seat down?
Now THAT vote is out of the way, let's turn our attention to something that really matters (!)
One of the biggest areas of conflict in many homes is whether the lavatory seat should be left up or left down. In my experience, the ladies leave it down whereas the men leave it up (for obvious reasons).
Invariably, the ladies insist that the seat should be down at all times and woe betide any poor humble male who leaves it up ! Now, my argument is that there is absolutely no difference if the ladies have to put the seat down before "use" or the men have to lift it up so why, oh why is it such an issue when we leave the seat up ?
I am willing to be convinced....!
One of the biggest areas of conflict in many homes is whether the lavatory seat should be left up or left down. In my experience, the ladies leave it down whereas the men leave it up (for obvious reasons).
Invariably, the ladies insist that the seat should be down at all times and woe betide any poor humble male who leaves it up ! Now, my argument is that there is absolutely no difference if the ladies have to put the seat down before "use" or the men have to lift it up so why, oh why is it such an issue when we leave the seat up ?
I am willing to be convinced....!
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oldbluefox
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Logically better to leave the seat up then the ladies know the gents have not used the loo without raising the seat.
However gents and ladies never agree when it comes to logic!!!

However gents and ladies never agree when it comes to logic!!!
I was taught to be cautious
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Onelife
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
My wife has more of a problem with how l leave the floor rather than whether l've left the lid up or down
Messy old business
Messy old business
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oldbluefox
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Try lifting the top lid.Onelife wrote:My wife has more of a problem with how l leave the floor rather than whether l've left the lid up or down![]()
Messy old business
I was taught to be cautious
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GillD46
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Not only are the seats down in our house, the lids are down too! Nothing worse than walking into a bathroom to see into the toilet.
Gill
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Stephen
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Stephen
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Hope you haven't got carpet fitted.Onelife wrote:My wife has more of a problem with how l leave the floor rather than whether l've left the lid up or down![]()
Messy old business
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Jan Rosser
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Stephen wrote:Hope you haven't got carpet fitted.Onelife wrote:My wife has more of a problem with how l leave the floor rather than whether l've left the lid up or down![]()
Messy old business
Janis
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Raybosailor
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
I don't mind putting the seat down for the ladies so long as they lift it back up for me to use.
As for putting the top lid down, whats wrong with looking into a spotless white toilet bowl with clean water in the bottom ?, I thought that was to sit on while I clipped my toenails.
As for putting the top lid down, whats wrong with looking into a spotless white toilet bowl with clean water in the bottom ?, I thought that was to sit on while I clipped my toenails.
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Raybosailor
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
I could come over and install you a wet room pal.Stephen wrote:Hope you haven't got carpet fitted.Onelife wrote:My wife has more of a problem with how l leave the floor rather than whether l've left the lid up or down![]()
Messy old business
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Boris+
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Ok, it's got to be seat and lid down - and here's my reason. What if something accidentally slips out of your pocket/handbag/hand whilst you are in the bathroom? If it falls onto a lid (plastic or wood, or even with one of those natty covers on the lid), there is a good chance that the item will be easy enough to pick up from the floor. Additionally, any damage to the item could be less than if the item fell onto a hard porcelain surface (the loo basin), and of course there would be no water damage.
So, because I'm too fond of stuff to risk damage to said stuff (phone, jewellery, etc), it's seat down and lid down. Less damage causes less cost, less upset too!
Just being sensible.
So, because I'm too fond of stuff to risk damage to said stuff (phone, jewellery, etc), it's seat down and lid down. Less damage causes less cost, less upset too!
Just being sensible.
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Stephen
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Got a very nice new En-Suite Ray. But thanks for the offer.
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Frank Manning
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
How many time do you see a house on TV or in an agents leaflet, and the photo shows the seat and lid up? It looks stupid and un appealing. Seat and Lid down as soon as you have finished gents, and please wash your hands afterwards, both genders.
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GillD46
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GillD46
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wolfie
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Gentlemen should lift the seat for their use, and, as they are 'gentlemen' replace it for use by ladies, in the down position.
Same as walking on the outside of a pavement.
As for the lid, I couldn't care less............... as long as those using the toilet lift it before use!!!
Same as walking on the outside of a pavement.
As for the lid, I couldn't care less............... as long as those using the toilet lift it before use!!!
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Brexit Fixit
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Gentlemen -. Please put seat down after use and close lid, thank you
Why do we have a lid on toilet pan? To close, of course!
Why do we have a lid on toilet pan? To close, of course!
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Raybosailor
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
I think the pavement rule is a bit outdated now Wolfie as people no longer throw their sewerage out of the bedroom window. (not round here anyway)wolfie wrote:Gentlemen should lift the seat for their use, and, as they are 'gentlemen' replace it for use by ladies, in the down position.
Same as walking on the outside of a pavement.
As for the lid, I couldn't care less............... as long as those using the toilet lift it before use!!!
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Keechy
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
I dare anyone to come and leave he seat up in our house, or leave the toilet door open because the auto niff remover keeps going off!
Nostalgia ain't what it used to be.
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Manoverboard
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
That's interesting frank, I hadn't realised that we have ' his n hers ' handsFrank Manning wrote:... Seat and Lid down as soon as you have finished gents, and please wash your hands afterwards, both genders.
Keep smiling, it's good for your well being
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Barb44
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
I agree with Gill - seat and lid down before flushing to avoid germs travelling in spray.
Barbara x
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Raybosailor
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Gill/Barbara, you put the lid down over the toilet basin then flush is that right ?Barb44 wrote:I agree with Gill - seat and lid down before flushing to avoid germs travelling in spray.
So what happens to the spray containing the germs that hit the bottom of the lid and probably bounce onto the seat ?.
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GillD46
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
Better they hit the seat than your toothbrush or tooth mug!Raybosailor wrote:Gill/Barbara, you put the lid down over the toilet basin then flush is that right ?Barb44 wrote:I agree with Gill - seat and lid down before flushing to avoid germs travelling in spray.
So what happens to the spray containing the germs that hit the bottom of the lid and probably bounce onto the seat ?.
I once made the mistake of flushing the toilet without closing the lid, after I had put bleach down. Even though I was about 8' away, the spray bleached my clothing, proving without doubt how far the spray travels.
Now if the toilet had contained solid waste...........well, not what I'd want on my clothes or toothbrush.
Gill
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Barb44
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Re: Seat up? Or seat down?
For that reason I don't keep toothbrushes on show. They are in a cupboard at the side of the washbasin.
Barbara x